Needy Mens Guide to Dating

When a needy man hits the dating scene and wants to get more than a bunch of first dates, then there are a number of things that he should take note of and particular ways to “play the dating game”.

  • Attitude
  • Go in with the attitude that you are the man… Woman love confident men, but don’t over do it. It’s a fine line between acting confident and being a cocky idiot that will turn chicks right off, but at least act confident, and you will come across as someone that she will want to hang out with – and hopefully more!

  • Get in shape
  • A healthy body can not do you any harm, hit the gym hard out and turn up to your dates not only confident but looking fit and toned, another plus when you are trying to appear to be the man that woman want to be with.

  • Conversation
  • When you are talking try to listen listen listen and ask lots of questions, don’t get stuck talking about yourself. Definitely do not mention anything that may make you appear needy… remember you are popular, busy, have lots of friends and although you can make time for that special woman in your life that is not the be all and end all. Remember that you believe in two people in a relationship having their own independence and living their own lives as well as their life together… this is all important stuff so don’t screw it up!

  • End of the Date
  • It’s always a hard one knowing what to do at the conclusion of a date, do you go in for the tongue kiss? Try and get them to come back to your house? What’s the plan? Well I believe its ok to go in for a goodbye kiss on the lips, sometimes their reaction to that will be surprising and you may get more than you bargained for but LEAVE IT TO THE CHICK. Otherwise you may be on your last date with the lovely lady, so play it carefully and less is definitely more sometimes.. give them something to look forward to next time.

  • Follow up
  • After that first date it’s ok to text or call them after and say you had a great time and would love to catch up again… but then leave it to them, don’t keep calling. If they are interested believe me they will get back to you. Normally within a few days you will get contact back and if you came across well in date number one, you will soon be heading for date number two.

Well hopefully you are now fully prepared to get out on the dating scene, remember you don’t have to act needy and with a little practice you should be able to come across to woman as the man you are trying to be, so give it your best shot and good luck!

Published by Jack Raverton

After two marriages and a number of relationships with all manner of woman Jack has seen a lot of different things over the last few years. Jack recognizes that neediness can be a huge turn off in any relationship, so shares how not to be that needy guy, and also how to recognize the signs in others.

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