Well for those needy men out there, often it can be difficult to meet and date girls – it really is tough at times.
One method I have personally found to be very successful is online dating, by hooking up with chicks online you can pick and choose the ones that suit you the best, see what they look like if they provide a decent enough photo, and even talk away to see how compatible you are before meeting up.
Here are some things I have learned about along dating, if you write a decent profile and are not a totally ugly bloke, chances are you will be going on several dates a week and meeting a lot of nice women.
Getting the date..
Write an honest, funny and throught provoking profile
Take your time writing your profile, don’t make silly spelling mistakes, or crazy statements. Be honest about what you write and remember the first time you meet someone they are going to be judging you on just that – did you lie and omit major things, or did you tell the truth?
Spend time chatting first
Don’t move in for the kill too quickly, try and build up an online relationship first, and then once you are comfortable chatting away to eachother and you have both had time to decide whether it’s worth moving to the next step ask her out on a date, have an idea in mind but be open to her suggestions as well. Some woman will start hinting to you very early on if they are keen to meet in person.
Suggestions for the date
Meet outside venue on first dates
For added comfort and less stress on the first date I suggest meeting outside the proposed venue, sometimes even go for a nice walk together before stopping for a drink. It’s much less stressful than not knowing if either party is there or not yet and wandering around a cafe or bar, looking lost and possibly even sitting down beside the wrong woman!!
Don’t try to hard to make a move on a first date
A lot of woman will want to befriend you before they jump into bed with you.. sad but true so be prepared to go on several dates before introducing passion and physical touch etc. There are exceptions and they will make it clear to you in their own way, so just play it cool.
Offer to pay
Up to the individual, but I always offer to pay but do appreciate the woman that insists on paying half. Some do, some don’t but at least you don’t come across as being tight or a scrooge with your money.
Well there you have it, some suggestions to get you out of the house, and dating some hot women.. remember you have nothing to lose and lots to gain, so just go and do it!