Insecure Men

Most normal and healthy women are turned off by insecure men, if you are an insecure man these are some of the traits that you probably possess.

  • Jealousy
  • Over the top attention giving
  • Making her your life
  • Boasting and over inflation of self
  • Neediness

Now we know what you are, it should be relatively straightforward to combat each of these…

Stop being jealous – even if you are having these feelings, just ignore them seriously. Be the man, why would she want to be with anyone else, and if there are lots of reasons then you need to work on your own issues before dragging a poor female into your life.

Too much attention – remember women love attention however it is easy to be over the top, notice the signs and back off if you think you could be coming on too strong. This can be tricky but just be careful and try to tone it down if you think you have problems in this area.

Have your own life – Women are attracted to interesting, busy men that involve them in their lives, not those that want the women to be their life. Again just chill out, enjoy time with your friends and don’t stop all the things you enjoy doing just to focus solely on a women, she won’t appreciate it and it’s no good for you either!

Boasting – You shouldn’t need to boast, actions speak louder than words. Prove to her what a man you are humbly and without crowing about it.

Neediness – DON’T BE NEEDY!!! if you think you are needy you need to spend some time reading the rest of the articles on this site, most of which will help you with this.

Ok guys, don’t panic but just chill out, calm down and find some security within that will make you so much more attractive to the fairer sex, and will have all the rewards that come with this.

Published by Jack Raverton

After two marriages and a number of relationships with all manner of woman Jack has seen a lot of different things over the last few years. Jack recognizes that neediness can be a huge turn off in any relationship, so shares how not to be that needy guy, and also how to recognize the signs in others.

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