Great video of tips for Needy Guys

This video is great, talks through a number of common needy and insecure guy signs and tips.

Why you shouldnt ask a woman if she had a good night!
Be a bad boy without the lies and cheating!
How to challenge a woman, date a lot of people. ( Don’t keep calling her !!!!! VERY IMPORTANT )
Have a plan and stick to it
Don’t be to available.

It’s not rocket science, just simple tips and tricks that will help you not only appear to be the man you strive to be, but probably change your love life immensely!

Published by Jack Raverton

After two marriages and a number of relationships with all manner of woman Jack has seen a lot of different things over the last few years. Jack recognizes that neediness can be a huge turn off in any relationship, so shares how not to be that needy guy, and also how to recognize the signs in others.

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  1. Hey, I don’t understand. I read things from girls like, “Women DREAM about being loved like bella. To be the most important thing in a man’s eyes. To be so important in fact, that she is his reason for living.” And as popular as love stories are with women, there’s got to be some truth to this…

    Then I read things like, “Most normal and healthy women are turned off by insecure men, if you are an insecure man these are some of the traits that you probably possess: ■Making her your life… ■Over the top attention giving (which sound to me like a “fair” rewording of the things that girls supposively dream about…)” I hate calling it insecure, cause in that light of course it looks bad. I like looking at the specific actions and comparing them to “being in love”. Sounds like women dream about and are really turned off by similar things, and a lot of guys are not appreciating the difference.

    How does a man allow a woman become the most important thing in his eyes without the guy coming off as “needy (making her your life) and turning the girl off?”

    In my own experience, when I was younger, if I was over the top into one girl, she seemed turned off by it, but her best friends would be all over me. Of course they are trying to make her jealous probably, but they were falling in love with me. What’s a guy to do?

  2. Jason.. firstly it’s a well known fact that we are dealing with a complicated species here!!

    Ultimately however you need to find the balance and if you are even in a situation where she is getting turned off by you giving her too much attention then the chances are she is just not in the same place that you are.

    There is a difference between giving a woman the attention she deserves and smothering her.

    Being respectful of her space while being attentive and thoughtful in other regards will go a long way towards helping to establish the perfect balance.

    Good luck Jason – if its too hard just take a break for a while!!!! ( sometimes it’s not meant to be )

  3. I think that timing is also very important. Eventually, if it is a mutually loving relationship, she will want to be the most important person in your life. But don’t push or rush to “in love”. Give her a chance to get know you and fall in love with you without the pressure. You need to give her the opportunity to miss you and yearn for you. I am not saying stop talking to her for weeks or months on end, just don’t see each other every day. Make sure you make time for the friends and family in your life. We appreciate sweet romantic gestures AND respect from you to have a life outside of the relationship. Respect and love

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