When meeting women or going on an important first date, first impressions are everything.
You need to present yourself as the type of person that women would naturally want to be with.
Depending on the depth of your experience and your social skills, this can be a difficult task.
Fortunately, there are a few common things that make a man appear highly desirable.
By focusing on these general rules of thumb, you can develop a persona and a relationship style that will be naturally successful with a wide range of women.
Value Your Time
Many folks who have dating issues don’t see the girl they’re out with as a choice.
Instead, they feel like this date is something they have to endure–since they can’t possibly get with anyone else.
This is a huge turn-off for most women, and it sets the stage for an awful dating experience.
Start by reminding yourself that you are choosing to spend time with this woman tonight.
Then, when you’re out, look for all of the interesting and attractive things that make you feel glad about your choice.
If there aren’t any, make the choice to forego a second date. This approach to dating will help you develop control and confidence–two things that women find incredibly sexy.
Take Your Grooming Seriously
You’ve probably witnessed how long women take to get ready for a date.
Everything about their appearance is carefully styled and nothing is left to chance.
You should take the same approach to your own appearance, and not just when you’re going out on a date.
You never know when Ms. Right is going to show up.
Pay attention to the little things about your appearance that often go unnoticed.
Keep your nails clean and trimmed, shave or groom your facial hair daily, and make sure that your clothes are an accurate representation of the type of person you are.
You’ll find that women will treat you differently, and you’ll have a much easier time when interacting with them.
Speak Little, Listen a Lot
If you’re the type of person that gets nervous when interacting with women, you’re likely showing that through the way you speak.
Nervous people tend to speak quickly, stammer, and often talk in circles.
This type of conversation does nothing to show your intellect or wit. Also, unless you’re the most interesting man in the world, you’ll run out of topics pretty quickly.
Instead, follow the first rule of social conversation–get the woman talking about herself.
People of both genders are always more comfortable when they’re talking about themselves, and you’ll avoid any verbal mistakes.
Talk only to get the woman talking about herself, then quiet down. She’ll take the lead and you’ll come off as classy and interested in her.
None of these ideas are exclusive to certain types of people. You can be true to yourself while valuing your time, being serious about your grooming, and talking less than you normally would.
In essence, all you’re really doing is taking steps to ensure that you put your best foot forward. That’s really all it takes.