Needy Guys… Are You One?

Needy guys are everywhere, are you one on them? If you don’t know, keep reading this article as I put forward some sure fire ways to tell if you fall within this category.

Additionally, if you are a female, these tips will help you to quickly diagnose a needy guy and be able to do the necessaries based on your personal preference.

Let’s go

Can’t live without significant other:

Do you keep telling your lady that you can’t live without her and that if she leaves you will harm yourself etc. yup, you guessed it, you are needy.

If you just met each other and you find yourself already assigning names to your future children or planning the wedding day, have no doubt, you are either a hopeless crazy romantic or very needy, and my bet is on the latter.

You ditch your friends for her and request that she does the same:

This is a sure sign that something is wrong.

The girl that you date should not have any restrictions of such nature put on her.

You may think it just means that you want her all to yourself and although in certain circumstances this may be attractive, in most it clearly identifies you as clingy and very needy.

You want to do everything for her:

Now for most ladies, cooking and cleaning for that special guy in her life is acceptable.

However, if the fellow can never do anything for himself, they will be on their guard.

If you call her every time you need a meal cooked or every time you need an item of clothing washed etc. and you are not lame or otherwise physically challenged, then you are highlighting yourself as a problem – she will know she has got a needy man on your hands and there’s no disputing that.

You call her 24/7:

If every time her phone rings you are on the other line just wanting to talk to her, she will know that there’s a strong probability that you are quite needy.

If you talk to her and as soon as she hangs up you are calling back because you have no one else but her to talk to, then you have a problem that spells need.

At the end of the day, you need to communicate with each other, but if this communication is affecting your daily productivity levels, you need to nip it in the bud.

You want to rush things:

If you just meet and already you are wanting to accelerate the relationship, this is a warning sign that she will be telling her friends about (and Googling), and they will be telling her to steer well clear!

If you find yourself instantly wanting her to move in with her after two or so dates, or if you want to get married right away, or introduce yourself to her family, you will be triggering alarm bells all over the place – this is desperate and needy behavior.

The Verdict

There are many ways to identify a needy guy, five of which have been listed above.

Guys, do you fall in this category?

Ladies, do you have a needy man?

The verdict is in.

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