If there is one type of woman a man should stay away from it is a desperate one.

Make sure you know the signs, before it is to late.

Heres the deal:

There is one thing that most women, and even men, in the world are needing to feel fulfilled – Love and being wanted.

Women are very fragile creatures, because of this the need exists in many of them to find the love of a good man.

Being man-less for a woman can mean the dreaded thought of being alone.

That threat of living life alone will drive some women into having men in their lives, who they don’t really want, but are willing to put up with as they would rather have that guy, than no guy at all.

Once a woman becomes afraid of being single, desperation creeps in.

Being desperate for a man will lead a woman into doing strange things, which instead of attracting men to her, will push men away.

10 Signs of a Desperate Woman

1. She craves male company

This is more of a feeling than a sign, however this fear of being lonely will make a desperate woman jump in and out relationships.

Since all the woman wants is to have a man by her side, she will date anyone, even if she knows that their partner is not really worth the relationship.

2. She aims low

Most women have pretty high values and expectations concerning the type of partner they want to date.

A desperate woman is an exception, as she will go out with any type of man, without being selective about his traits, or concerned about his behavior.

3. She is not time-bound

A desperate woman will do anything just to get a date with a guy. She will always make herself free whenever she is approached to go out and she would rather reschedule vital things in her calendar in order to have that one crucial date with a man.

For you guys this means pay more attention to the woman that is hard to pin down for a date, rather than the lady that will do anything to change her life to fit you in.

Ladies, if you don’t want to appear to be desperate, play a little bit hard to get – if a man is really interested in you, he will keep on making the effort to fit in with you.

4. She excessively calls or texts the man

A confident women will believe that it is the man’s work to call the woman early in the relationship.

A woman who is desperate will tend to call or text the man, even when the man has not replied to any of her texts or calls.

5. She dresses in scanty clothes to capture men’s attention

Dressing up in tight and super-sexy clothes and constantly passing through places where she knows men are in plenty is what a desperate woman does. This is because she need to show off herself to men so as to be approached by them.

6. She is alright with everything the man wants

A woman who agrees to everything the man wants, does or thinks is desperate. She is afraid of being left if she speaks her mind.

Sooner rather than later, the man will be bored by her since she is a woman with no opinions, ideologies or interests.

7. She is always looking for compliments

A desperate woman has low self-esteem and a poor self-image. This will make her rely strongly on the compliments given by the man, not knowing that this is weary for the man.

8. She forgives very easily

Even in cases of insults from the man, she will forgive him very fast, in order to keep him by her side.

9. She is always stalking the man she is focused on

She constantly checks his social media pages and checks out his recent friend lists.

This is done because of jealousy and insecurity – she want so make sure the man’s attention is on her – and her alone.

10. Her life revolves around the man’s life

A desperate woman will get addicted to the man very fast and thus look into everything he does.

Desperate women should be careful because men will take advantage of their desperation – once they have won her heart the danger is that they will get bored and move onto a woman that is more of a challenge.

Have you had a close encounter with a desperate woman that you would like to share?

Published by Jack Raverton

After two marriages and a number of relationships with all manner of woman Jack has seen a lot of different things over the last few years. Jack recognizes that neediness can be a huge turn off in any relationship, so shares how not to be that needy guy, and also how to recognize the signs in others.

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  1. A guy with two failed marriages tells you about women.

    In the next article Charlie Sheen tells you how to stay sober.

    1. So you would rather have some guy that has been married to his highschool sweetheart all his life teach you about women? OK man…. Just move on if you don’t like the site.

  2. I am a woman very happy in a true partnership with a beautiful man who adores and respects me because of my independence and apparent self-esteem. I made some young girl mistakes along the way and your words speak speak hard truth. I have spent years concerned about my sister with this heart breaking behavior you write about. I found your article PRECISE, thoughtful, and absolutely the most important thing I could show my 15 year old niece who is already exhibiting this behavior. Thank you so much for this concise and succinct piece. So appreciated from a decent man who took the time to HELP women understand esteem and the male perspective. If every woman thought like this there would be so much less heartache and so many more equal partnerships. A strong woman is not needy. Interesting as I always was treated well because I think men knew. It is an unspoken thing, they sense self-esteem.

  3. Women in the west are NEVER desperate, western women get like 2000 offers a day online np.

    1. It’s very sad but true. I actually prefer desperate women but most of them are too stuck up so I just pay Indian women to love me. They truly appreciate a man’s attention.

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