Dating can be a difficult activity to participate in.

Many people have issues with becoming too needy when they are dating someone. This can cause the other person to feel trapped so they run in the other direction.

Here are some tips on how not to be needy when dating.

Be a Good Listener

Many people become too needy and make everything topic of conversation all about them.

This can cause them to not listen to what their partner has to say when they are on a date.

People need to be good listeners and ask questions so that the person sees that they are engaged in the conversation.

Individuals need to focus on being able to listen not to respond back, but to learn new things about the one that they are dating.

Do Not Become Too Dependent on the Other Person

When a person dates someone, this should not change who they are.

Many people become too dependent on the other person and become jealous when they schedule time to be with their friends or family members and do not want to include them.

A healthy relationship can only be achieved if both people have a firm sense of who they are and can socialize with others outside of their relationship.

People also need to focus on maintaining their own sense of self so if there is a break up, they can pick up the pieces and start over again.

Avoid Trying to Schedule Too Many Dates in One Week

People often can become too needy when they try to occupy their partner’s time seven days per week.

This can make people feel suffocated which can turn them off. It is beneficial to schedule one to two dates each week on designated days so that people can plan ahead.

Do Not Text or Call the Person All the Time

Trust is a huge issue in a relationship. One issue that irritates people is when the person that they are dating calls or texts them incessantly.

This can signal a lack of trust which can be a sign that a person is too needy.

It is crucial for both parties to view themselves as equal.

If one person become too concerned with what the other is doing when they are not together then trust cannot be created.

Establish Dating Rules

It is important for people to approach dating in a strategic way so that both of them are on the same page.

One way to do this is to establish dating rules that both people will abide by. This helps to establish a list of objectives so that the relationship can flourish over time.

Understand the Importance of Being Selfless

People who are needy in relationships are often selfish and only think about their own wants and needs.

It is important for people to take a step back and ask their significant other about what they need or would like to do.

This shows thoughtfulness and allows the person to see that they are dating someone who makes their needs a priority.

Published by Jack Raverton

After two marriages and a number of relationships with all manner of woman Jack has seen a lot of different things over the last few years. Jack recognizes that neediness can be a huge turn off in any relationship, so shares how not to be that needy guy, and also how to recognize the signs in others.

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