If you’re trying to impress a girl but just can’t seem to hit it off, there are some things you need to ask yourself.
Do you appear extremely clingy, or are you confident?
If you didn’t know already – neediness is never attractive.
And while we are at it, neither is constant anxiety, a pessimistic attitude, and over-the-top jealousy.
In this article we have some great tips for you so make sure you don’t miss any of them.
We want to ensure that you come across as a capable and confident man.
When it comes to winning a woman over, there are some things you definitely shouldn’t do, and one of these is waste time.
Don’t shy away from approaching her and asking her out, because who knows, she might just agree!
Most women look out for confidence and self-assurance in a man, and that’s exactly what she sees when the man takes the first step.
Neediness, on the other hand, is a sign of under-confidence, and even lack of independence.
Why do you think more and more women find themselves attracted to the bad boys out there?
Some may say this is because of that thrill of adventure, while others believe it’s because women always love the idea of changing a man.
The thought of rescuing a man from this bad background and changing him for the better can be irresistible to the female rationale.
To all this, I call BS. The truth about the bad boy craze lies in their absolute confidence.
These are the men who are natural alphas, and as biology would have it, women’s survival instincts pushes them towards them.
While we are no longer threatened by extinction, you simply can’t go against years of evolution.
Moreover, confident men know just what they’re all about.
They love themselves, and women love them for that.
So let’s get it straight: Confidence is sexy.
After all, isn’t this the determining factor?
While a shy man may twiddle his thumbs in a corner, it is the confident man who will walk up to the woman and buy her a drink.
And at the end of the day, this is the man who will probably go home with her number.
There are of course, always exceptions to the rule.
But it’s better to make things happen for yourself instead of waiting for luck to help you out.
So if you’re looking to attract more women, here are some tips to remember.
These are sure to make you appear more confident (read, attractive) to the women you approach.
1. To begin with – approach the woman! A guy who makes the first move is obviously confident.
So walk up to her and begin talking a little, and you’ve got your ‘in’.
2. A little random banter never hurt anybody. So now that you’ve approached her, it’s time to interest her.
Talk about her, ask her questions, and find out her likes and dislikes.
Try to keep the conversation interesting, but just so you know, not all women will be impressed by your intensive knowledge about Star Wars.
So stick to more neutral territory, unless you discover similar interests – in which case being geeky doesn’t hurt either.
However, remember to be confident in your speech!
3. Even as you are talking, maintain eye-contact throughout.
Plenty of the conversations that take place between the two of you won’t be in words.
It doesn’t matter how utterly gorgeous she is, you are no less.
So maintain steady eye-contact throughout it all, but don’t stare too intently or else you will creep her (or anybody else) out.
4. And while you’re at it, don’t be afraid to get a little flirty as well.
How else will she know that you’re really interested?
Compliment her on something, and a light brush on her hand might not be too much of a stretch either.
But might we remind you, only continue if you are sure she is interested.
Is she hinting back at you, or does she look like she’d rather run?
Because if she isn’t interested, be confident enough to move on – no hard feelings.
5. And remember, being confident doesn’t mean being a control freak.
Instead, relax and let things go the way they do. All you have to do it remain self-assured.
So what if she made a little fun of your favorite game – laugh along, and don’t get too caught up.
Even if things aren’t going according to plan, nothing is ruined as yet, so just roll with it!
A confident person somehow exudes a sense of trustworthiness.
So it’s no wonder that these are the guys women generally tend to go out with.
With a little more faith in yourself, you too can join this elite group of men!