Gaming vs Porn – Which is the Biggest Turnoff to Girls?

To begin with, let’s be fair – All women are different, and this might not be applicable to everyone.

However, if you’re trying to score with your girlfriend or potential partner, there are definitely some turn offs to keep in mind.

Gaming and Porn are the two big ones which can easily flip the switch from hot and steamy to a curt ‘goodnight’.

Even so, depending on your girl’s preferences, you might have to reach a compromise (or not)

to ensure that you keep your nightlife going strong. So why do these two become relationship problems?

There are a number of reasons:

Gamer Trouble

Now we aren’t talking about a little gaming here and there.

Whether you’re in a relationship or not, you deserve your own independence.

But what becomes an issue is when things get a little out of hand.

Addiction:

Let’s face it, while relationships shouldn’t hinder independence, some together time is a must.

So when something gets in the way of that, there are definitely going to be some fights.

And gaming addiction has the full potential to ensure that you ignore your woman for a little extra playtime – making it a huge turn off for most.

Attention:

While you’re too busy focusing all your energy on your game, you tend to ignore what’s right beside you – your woman.

And no one likes to feel as though they’re playing second fiddle to anything (especially a game).

Sexism:

If you’re into games that sexualize the female characters, you run a high risk of annoying your partner.

After all, these games are designed to make women appear to be the objects rather than the subjects, making it quite irritating for the self-respecting woman.

Porn Problems

Many women find this to be a huge turn off, while men are left scratching their heads wondering why.

So if this seems to mirror your situation, here are some of the much-needed answers.

Male Gaze:

The most obvious reason for porn being a turn off would be their target audience.

Most of these are created for the men in particular.

By objectifying and sexualizing women and their parts, it hasn’t been made to appeal to the ladies, making it distasteful for many women out there.

Inferiority Complex:

The generous attention paid to the female characters and their bodies becomes the source of an inferiority complex in some.

Despite knowing that much of the stuff you see on the screen might be fake, there are those who feel that men watch it because they’re dissatisfied in their own lives.

Knowing that they can’t live up to the liposuctioned, hour-glass bodies ensures a perpetual feeling of self-loathing, destroying all possibilities of a turn-on.

Insulting:

Building on the above mentioned points, many women have pointed out that porn is downright insulting to a woman.

These videos frequently treat them as objects, more for view and show than as a human being.

So when these encourage such behavior in a relationship, the modern day woman won’t stand for it!

Disconnected:

Made for the man, women frequently can’t relate to porn at all.

For example, while there are definitely some delightful exceptions, most videos that feature hot women tend to showcase average-looking men.

Moreover, women in porn make everything look delightful, even things that average women don’t enjoy.

This gives men expectations that their partner might not be willing to fulfill, fueling women’s war against porn.

Personal Choice:

But before you decide one of these might just be it, remember that sometimes it’s just a matter of preference.

Its the same as how some men don’t enjoy porn either – so if she tells you she just doesn’t like it, take her on her word.

Gaming Vs Porn

If you’re still wondering which is worse, the answer is obvious: Porn is the clear winner!

For the most part, women tend to dislike the mainstream porn that appeals to men,

making it the biggest turn off out there.

However, there are always exceptions to the rule, so don’t be surprised if your girlfriend asks you to watch it together.

And if you want to agree on a compromise, you can also find videos that would appeal to your better half.

As for gaming, so long as you don’t get too carried away, you can get the best of both worlds.

Unfortunately, the moment you let it cut into your couple time, things will take a turn for the worse.

So keep that in mind before starting the next level, but if you have a gamer girlfriend, chances are, all your troubles will be over!

 

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