Everybody has times when they’re needy. That’s part of being human and how we deal with life.
The trouble usually starts when someone is needy all of the time.
Not only are they difficult to deal with, but they can suck the life out of you.
Be that as it may, needy men tend to be attracted to a certain kind of woman.
This article is about that type of woman and why needy men are attracted to her.
The Woman who Feeds his Needs.
The needy man needs to be around his woman constantly.
When he’s not around her, he is flooding her with emails and texts about how much he misses her.
Even over short periods of being apart, he lets her know how much he is looking forward to seeing her again.
He’s constantly clinging to her, and although this might be nice and cute for a while at the beginning of a relationship, it can get old quick and grate on on a woman’s nerves.
In saying that though there are women who like this attention and even some who reciprocate these feelings.
Yep needy men love those kind of ladies.
The Woman who Feeds his Presence.
The needy man is around the love of his life, even when he’s not literally around her.
Her social networks are a good example of this outlet.
The needy man is constantly looking at her social networking pages, whatever and how many of them there are.
Even if she is discussing “girl stuff” he wants to be part of the discussion.
Naturally he wants to friend and engage with this woman on all of her social media outlets.
When she feeds this, the bond that he covets grows stronger.
He will be checking all her current friends, and watching over any new male ones with a jealous and irrational glare.
The Woman Feeds his Need to Talk.
A needy man wants to talk to his woman all of the time.
He’s likely to call her several times each day just to check up on her and how her day is going.
Just as is the case with other factors of being a needy man, this might be pleasant at first, but unfortunately, when she feeds this need it often grows until he becomes more and more needy.
Soon, he’s calling her and texting her every hour on the hour.
He needs this reassurance, and when she gives it to him, he just wants it even more.
The Woman who Feeds his Relationship Desires.
If the needy man feels even a glimpse of a reciprocation of his feelings he wants to rush the relationship.
After only a few dates and conversations, he’s making plans for a future together.
Note: This is an excellent sign that he is a needy man.
He’s always in a rush to get things done and wants things to progress as quickly as possible.
He will be urging the relationship to move to the next step.
Some women, quite simply, like this.
And when the needy man senses that she is willing to be rushed, and even thrives on it, he’s found his target.
The Woman who Likes the Sweet-Talking.
A needy man is constantly feeding the good feelings of the woman he is approaching.
He does this, in part, by paying constant compliments to her. Sweet-talking her.
Women like this, of course, but not when it’s coming 24/7. That becomes hard to handle.
Some women, to one degree or another, like this and allow it to continue.
The Woman who Wants to be his Whole World.
Everyone lives in different worlds.
We have our personal world, our social world, our work world, and others.
The trouble usually starts when for the needy man those worlds shrink and disappear, and the needy man makes the object of their desire their whole world.
Not only does the needy man remove themselves from those other worlds, but they expect the woman to do the same with her world.
If the woman is willing to do this or is like him in that she doesn’t have other worlds too, that’s good for him.
Unfortunately when these needs grow, things are likely to get tense, and there will be conflict.
A huge part of this problem is that the needy man becomes drawn to the conflict with the woman.
It’s one more way he can be clingy with her.
If you have gotten this far reading this article, you have probably spent a considerable part of it rolling your eyes and wondering how any woman could tolerate such a man.
The trouble is that many do, but if it doesn’t sound pleasant to you, watch out for these kind of men.
You’ll be happier for it.
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