How to Handle a Beautiful Girlfriend Without Appearing Needy

Every man’s dream is to have a beautiful girlfriend or wife.

But is it worth it?

Often the most beautiful members of the female species come with a price.

How to Handle Other Guys Hitting on your Girlfriend

Here’s the thing..

If other guys are hitting on your girl when you are around, imagine what it’s like when your not around.

Well other than joining a religion that covers females up from head to toe (now we get it), there is not much you can do except:

  • Ignore guys hitting on your girlfriend
  • Challenge guys hitting on your girl
  • Ask your girlfriend to deal with it
  • Leave your girlfriend
Image: flickr
Image: flickr


It is natural to feel jealousy when every guy out there seems to want to stare at your girlfriend and rape her with their eyes.

However and here is the key. Don’t show it! Nothing is more attractive to a woman than a mans indifference. It will drive her wild.

Your self confidence (even if only imagined) will be irresistible to her.


There are two things that turn woman off more than anything else.


And… dirty fingernails.

Now listen up, the best thing is that both of these things you can do something about.

If you have a gorgeous girlfriend, of course you are going to want to know where she is and what she is doing. Who wouldn’t right?

The problem is that this kind of needy behavior will ensure that all your fears come true. A self fulfilling prophecy if you will.

So what are you to do? You need to embrace the word indifference. Nothing drives a woman more wild than the niggling thought that a guy is not completely besotted with her.


You are probably starting to get it now, but of course the hardest thing is to enact what you know you need to do.

You realize that you must not act needy, or jealous. You are aware that every-time you do, a little bit of the love and attraction she feels for you slips away.

Remember this, it doesn’t matter what you think or feel inside. The only way anyone knows that you are not an alpha stud is if you display the actions that an alpha stud would not do.

It’s going to be the hardest thing you have ever done, to change your way of thinking.

But it will also help you achieve what other lesser men only dream of.

The love of a beautiful woman.

Get to work, retrain the brain.

Published by Jack Raverton

After two marriages and a number of relationships with all manner of woman Jack has seen a lot of different things over the last few years. Jack recognizes that neediness can be a huge turn off in any relationship, so shares how not to be that needy guy, and also how to recognize the signs in others.

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