I know what it’s like – you just want to chill out.
You have had a long day, everything is cool, why mess with that stuff right?
Wrong, you are with the woman from hell and she is here to mess your shit up, make you angry and probably try to prove that you are wrong about something you don’t even realize you did.
Well here’s the thing..
You can either put up with her shit, bend over and take it like a sissy bitch. Or you can stand up to this shit and put her in her goddamn rightful place.
No one has the right to come after you when you have done nothing wrong. Not your girlfriend, your mother, her mother, no one.
How to deal with a crazy bitch that is messing with your mind
The other night I went out with my lady to a friends house for dinner. I drove and didn’t drink much at the house, so I could remain sober for the drive home.
Good man.. responsible right?
Well.. we get home, things are a little messy in the house, stuff needs tidying up (because of the kids). All good we get on that.
Meanwhile I open some wine and are having a drink, as hardly drank whilst we were out.
Eventually she called me down for bed asking for a cup of tea – which I made. I went down wine in hand and she had a problem.
“I don’t like the smell of that wine.” she said.
Well tough shit I am thinking I just took you out for the night, we got home, everythings cool.. I even made you a cup of tea.
Too bad – she had an evil glint in her eye, was on her period and just didn’t much like me round right then. So fine.
Take a stand
Refusing to be treated like a second class citizen of a third world country I just left the room, went back upstairs and poured an even bigger glass of wine.
Because you don’t have to put up with this stuff. If you are a decent man, if you do the right thing by your family and your girlfriend and look after stuff overall you are in a powerful place.
Hint: if you are not a decent man and you don’t do all that stuff… meh.. probably this is not going to work for you.
Anyway some tips on dealing with that crazy bitch calling you out:
Call their bluff, sooner or later you will probably get a text or she will call you back down for some more punishment. Be very careful with the answer.
Make sure you don’t do what she wants and tell her you need a bit of chill out time on your own for a bit.
Now here is the thing, a needy man might just go running straight back to her and his life experiences will actually change because of that.
You must not pander to them, if they treat you like crap then make them face the same treatment and see what it is like.
It will be the hardest thing you ever do.
Honestly though, it is just not healthy to let yourself be treated like anything other than a valuable human being so don’t let anyone get away with mistreatment here.
My recommendations in these circumstances are:
- Don’t pander to them
- Do what you want to do
- Ignore the guilt trips
- Be prepared to follow through and walk away
At the end of the day these ladies will take your heart, they will confuse you and make you mess up lots of shit. But they don’t have your soul unless you give it to them.
Don’t give any lady your heart unless she treats you with respect.