How to Put up with an Angry Girlfriend or Wife

First of all I am not saying that only females are crazy. My experience is more with crazy females vs crazy males so that is what I can write about.

If you have a lot of experience with crazy males, then feel free to tell us your story.

In the last decade or so I have been with a few woman who have verbally and emotionally attacked me.

Initially I was shocked by this and had no idea how to react however after several such experiences I began to try to reason and argue back.

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This is what I have learned.

You will never be right in the heat of an argument

Try to understand that even if you are right, you are wrong. When someone is seeing red, they lose all perspective and only see themselves as being right.

They are aggrieved and you are the target and the cause of it all.

Separate mind from emotions

Meditation training can help with this one. It is important to try to distance yourself a little from the battle that is being raged in your mind.

Try not to be controlled by your emotions. Just observe for a while.

Sometimes silence can be the most powerful response of them all.

Get a diagnosis

Understand what you are dealing with.

If the lady you are dealing with is Bipolar, or is depressed maybe you need to take a look at yourself and try to rein in your frustrations and become more understanding.

Suggest that they see a Doctor and get some professional advice.

Don’t try to self diagnose behavior on Google.

Don’t be afraid to cut the chord

Sometimes things just are not meant to be.

If you really do not get on with the person you are meant to be in a relationship with, it could be time to part ways. Make a fresh start.

Perhaps you should think about not being in a relationship at all for a while.

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