Attack of the Clingy and Desperate Boyfriend

This video is hilarious and shows an over dramatized version of just how bad a needy man can be. If you are feeling the urge to be needy you should watch this and hopefully you will get the point that its JUST NOT OK TO BE NEEDY.

Sometimes you need to be honest with yourself and realize that its not her thats the problem, its you. So if you see yourself in this video, you need help!!

Why Do I Feel Needy and Clingy?

This is a great video that helps to explain why some men feel the needy and clingy feelings that they do. Its important to realize sometimes whats going on behind the scenes and that way you can recognize your behaviour problems and sort them out.

A couple of key points to take from this video include making time for yourself instead of focusing so much on your girlfriend/wife/partner. As well as a fantastic explanation as to WHY you are feeling needy in the first place. Enjoy the video.

How To Stop Being Jealous

Jealousy is one of the worst feelings known to mankind, often it is uncalled for and as this site is mainly about how to stop being a needy man we are going to share with you four techniques that can help you as a guy stop being jealous.

Is She Worth It?

Think about this.. if the women you are having jealous feelings about is actually guilty or capable of doing what you are thinking then you really need to stop and have a think about this one. Quite likely she is not the girl for you.

Reality Check

There is always someone taller, bigger, smarter, funnier than you. Thats the facts of life however your chick is with you because she wants to be. Have confidence in yourself, realize that you are never going to be the perfect person and take things from there.

Insecurity – Look inside yourself

Quite often insecurity and jealous feelings can come from within, what have you been doing that you should not have been. Do you maybe not trust yourself and this is why you are not trusting the significant other in your life. Often to find the answers to your jealousy you just need to look in the mirror.

Make yourself tolerant

Most feelings and responses to situations are a state of mind. If you notice that jealous feelings are starting to arise within you just ignore them. Make them go away and refuse to spend your valuable time dwelling on them. Remember you are a man. Be strong, don’t worry about things that are only in your mind. Worry yourself with them when they become reality, until then be tolerant.

How To Stop Being Needy And Change Your Life

One thing is clear, women are not attracted to needy men and this article will give some helpful pointers on how to stop being needy.

It may be argued that there are a large number of needy women out there, however that does not change the fact that we will repeat and say that women are NOT attracted to needy men.

Self assurance

Do not show that you are unsure of yourself, this means every time you are tempted to say are you ok?, is everything good between us?, are you enjoying yourself? and anything along those lines you need to bite your tongue.

Women like confident self assured men. She is with you so why would she not be enjoying herself!!

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Have your own life

Be happy with your own life, make sure you do not exist to co-exist with any woman as this is not ok. You need to be showing that you are busy, have lots of friends, and are having a fun time, that way women will want to be part of that.

They don’t want to hang out with some guy that is moping around home waiting for them to call.

Where is the challenge in that?

Don’t chase the chick

If a women is interested in you, they will make it known. You don’t have to chase very hard at all, if at all.

Be the guy that women want to be with and they will make it happen believe me.

If you call her and she doesn’t call back LEAVE IT, she will wait expecting you to call again, and if she is interested in you she will make contact, you don’t need to keep chasing as that will only make you seem desperate.

You want her to think you are in demand and someone that is worthy of being with.

The same goes for texting, do not keep texting her all the time trying to keep tabs on what she is up, women need to feel like they have their own space and you will only come across as insecure and unattractive if you keep feeling the urge to check up on them.

Don’t be jealous

Remember this.. if your women wants to be with another man she will do that. Being jealous of her friendships or of her hanging out with other guys is not going to change that.

It will only make you mad and once again you will come across as being needy and requiring constant reassurance which will lower your attractiveness once more.

Obviously if you think she is playing around on you then cut her loose but don’t come across as being weak and worrying yourself to death over it all.

These are some of the ways that you can help ensure that you don’t come across as being too needy, always take the time to think about what you are going to say and if you can just not say it, that can often be a very wise move.

The strong unemotional type that is going to look after his women and leads an interesting life without emotional weakness is the type of man that women want.

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